Unlock the Power of Connection

Keynote speaking, workshops, and retreat programming to help veterans, their families, and the organizations that serve them spark genuine connections so they can thrive in life after service.

KEYNOTE

Becca Spahr, a woman veteran speaker giving a presentation on stage at MIC 2025 conference, standing in front of a blue banner with the MIC 2025 logo and USAA logo.

Your New Battle Buddies

Finding Belonging After Service

The uniform comes off, the base is in your rear view mirror, and suddenly you’re alone, wondering how people actually make friends. In this funny, honest keynote, Becca shows veterans and their families why connection matters, and how to build it without feeling awkward or desperate.

  • When veterans and their families transition from the easy and fast friendships that military life offers, to the sometimes unwelcoming real world, they are often left wondering what happened. In Your New Battle Buddies, Becca uses humor, real-life stories, and a few “don’t do what I did” moments to explain social wellness, why veterans and their families often feel disconnected after service, and how belonging can be rebuilt, on purpose, at any stage of life.

  • This keynote is for veterans of all branches and generations, and the family members who live alongside them, who miss the built-in camaraderie of military life and want real friendships, stronger professional connections, and a sense of belonging that doesn’t require a uniform.

    • Learn why post-service disconnection is common—and not a personal failure

    • Understand what social wellness actually is (and what it definitely isn’t)

    • See connection as a learnable skill, not a personality trait

    • Leave with practical, doable ways to find their next “battle buddies”

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WORKSHOPS

Becca Spahr Giving Professional Development Workshop about Authentic Leadership

The Likable Leader Playbook: Turning Connection into Team Performance

Leadership isn’t just about making decisions—it’s about earning trust, respect, and buy-in from your team. In this workshop, leaders will learn how to balance authority with authenticity, cultivating likability as a strength rather than a liability. Through practical tools and real-world strategies, participants will discover how to communicate in ways that inspire, set boundaries that empower rather than alienate, and foster a culture where employees feel valued, motivated, and engaged. The result is stronger relationships, higher morale, and a leadership style that drives both performance and loyalty.

  • DURATION: 30 min or 1 hr

    GROUP SIZE: Any

    SETTING: Indoor classroom or conference room

    INVESTMENT: Please contact us for a quote

    • How to be both respected and approachable as a leader.

    • Strategies to build trust and positive team dynamics.

    • Communication techniques that inspire collaboration and engagement.

Becca Spahr, a woman veteran speaker giving a presentation about human connection in a conference room with a screen behind her that reads, 'Humans are Wired for Connection.'

How To Connect With Anyone: The I-VIBE Framework for Meaningful Connections

In this interactive workshop, participants will explore why human connection is essential to thriving relationships and lasting influence. Through engaging discussion and practical exercises, Becca will share her I-VIBE Framework for Meaningful Connections, offering actionable strategies that help participants make friends, expand their professional networks, and show up more fully in everyday interactions. Attendees will leave with the confidence and tools to transform small moments into big wins for connection.

  • DURATION: 1 hr

    GROUP SIZE: Any

    SETTING: Indoor classroom or conference room

    INVESTMENT: Please contact for a quote

    • Understand the Value of Connection – Recognize why connection is a critical driver of influence, trust, and fulfillment in both personal and professional life.

    • Apply the I-VIBE Framework – Learn five actionable habits that make it easier to connect authentically and consistently with others.

    • Build Confidence in Everyday Interactions – Walk away with practical tools to turn small conversations and gestures into lasting relationship wins.

How I made my first best friend

In this heartfelt and humorous clip from a local small business event, I share the story of how I accidentally discovered the power of likability at just seven years old. That childhood lesson sparked a lifelong fascination with connection. Today, I bring that passion to everything I do—whether I’m guest hosting a podcast, leading a women’s friendship retreat, or volunteering in my community. At the core of it all is a simple goal: helping people build better relationships by showing up as their most likable, authentic selves.