Hi, I’m Becca.

I help people cultivate their likability.

Likability is a skill — not a personality trait — and when you know how to use it, it opens the door to greater influence, deeper connections, and the kind of energy people want to be around.

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    Becca’s engaging keynotes and workshops help audiences discover their natural likability to boost confidence and build connections.

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    If you're looking to make friends, enhance your social skills, or strengthen professional relationships, Becca can guide you in mastering the art of being effortlessly likable.

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What people are saying…

  • “Absolutely phenomenal. Really polished speaker who had unique perspectives.”

    Catherine M.

  • “Becca’s talk was funny and gave me a lot to think about. I felt like I walked away with great insights that will help me at work and also in my personal life.”

    Kristin L.

  • "I feel like I'm a pretty nice person, but I was still having trouble making friends. Becca really helped me figure out what I could do to connect better."

    Ashlyn W.

  • "Learning the science behind being likable blew my mind. It makes so much sense now!"

    Steven M.

  • I wish I knew this stuff sooner!

    Daniel P.

  • "Becca Spahr is the real deal. No fluff, no jargon, just straight talk that sticks. Her sessions are like a breath of fresh air: funny, honest, and packed with insights you can actually use. She doesn't just talk about leadership; she shows you how to live it in a way that feels genuine and doable."

    Thaddeus M.

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    Certified Life Coach

    Specializing in likability and leadership coaching

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    U.S. Marine Veteran

    20+ years of fast-paced, high-pressure leadership experience

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    Award-Winning Leader

    Winner of the SSLA Maj Megan McClung Leadership Award

Let’s do this!

Whether it’s one-on-one coaching, a professional development workshop, or a keynote speech, Becca is ready to help!

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